“Simply put you believe that things or people make you unhappy, but this is not accurate. You make yourself unhappy.”
— Wayne Dyer
This idea about choosing to be happy was something I had revelation about last year. We can get upset about things or we can choose to just let things go. I have a tendency to bit a bit of an idealist at times with unrealistic expectations of myself and others. People are human, they will disappoint occasionally ,unwittingly or not. That’s life. It’s out of my control for the most part. The only thing I can do about it is to suck it up and move on. And I have tried to do that, no holding on to grudges unnecessarily. I’ve learned that I don’t know what is going on is peoples lives and what makes them behave a certain way. The best plan is to let go and choose to be happy. It’s good to have a little reminder of that every now and again.